Hello Rsthomas.
In your case you should setup password retrieve email. To do this you should follow the following steps:
1) Go to "Other" in right menu when logged in - > Action E-mails & SMS;
2) Click "Seotoaster" label under "toaster" icon;
3) Click "Password reset request";
4) If nothing is there - click "+", othervise there should be form by default;
5) Fill in
"send to" - > member;
"use template" - > email;
"with message" - > Please click the link below to reset your password: <div style="word-break:break-all;">{reset:link}</div>
"from" - > your email;
"with subject" - > Password reminder;
6) Click changes.
That's it.
Regars, Pavel.